From Isolation to Belonging: Reflections on Emma’s Talk at the University of Plymouth

Recently, our co-founder Emma had the honour of speaking at the Goodness of Plymouth event at the University of Plymouth. It was a powerful opportunity to reflect on her own journey and to share the heart of what Mindful Art Club is really about: connection, creativity, and community as antidotes to loneliness and despair.

Emma’s talk centred on a simple but urgent truth, that loneliness is a public health emergency. In a world increasingly shaped by division, technology, and disconnection, many of us are quietly struggling. But, as Emma reminded us, the solution does not have to be complicated.

“The solution to this is simple: connection.”

Voice, Identity, and Community

Emma spoke openly about arriving at a treatment centre in Plymouth in 1999, a turning point that marked the beginning of profound change. After years of struggling with feelings of not being “good enough,” Emma thought she had found belonging for the first time in spaces where people came together through music, movement, and drug use. But, what initially felt like freedom, however, eventually led into a ten-year nightmare of addiction, isolation, and despair.

Yet this story is not one of defeat, it is one of rediscovering voice and identity through community.

Through recovery, Emma found herself drawn to working alongside others, supporting addicts to get clean and rebuild their lives. That journey eventually led to the creation of Mindful Art Club, co-founded with Peggy, rooted in the belief that healing happens best when we do it together.

A central theme of Emma’s talk was the importance of honesty and vulnerability. Too often, we are taught to hide the parts of ourselves that feel messy, painful, or shameful. But Emma challenged this idea directly.

“Being open about what is going on for us shows strength and creates solidarity.”

The more open we are, the less we hide — and the more space we create for trust, compassion, and real connection. When people talk, listen, and are truly heard, something shifts. Shame loosens its grip. Isolation softens. Belonging becomes possible.

Emma closed her talk with a message that felt both grounded and hopeful. Not only is it possible to overcome challenges such as addiction, loneliness, and poor mental health, the process can be fun and fulfilling.

The power of what we do lies in its simplicity. When people are invited to share how they feel, to create together, and to be met without judgement, something remarkable happens. People relax. Smiles appear. Burdens lift.

We were less locked, less burdened. And it was utterly remarkable.”

At Mindful Art Club, we believe deeply in this work. Art can bring communities together. Conversation can change lives. And connection – real, human connection, can help us move from isolation to belonging.

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Afraid to Eat in Front of Others? Try These 5 Calming Tips!

In her latest video, Peggy comes to us from a peaceful (though very romantic!) little restaurant on the Grand Union Canal . For those who don’t know, Peggy spent many years living and working on canal boats across the country, so it’s no surprise she feels right at home waterside!

As she sits by the canal, Peggy talks openly about something many people struggle with but rarely discuss: the fear of eating in front of others.

These fears even have names:

  • Solomangarephobia — fear of eating alone in public
  • Deipnophobia — fear of eating with, or in front of others

Both are more common than people realise, especially for those who’ve experienced anxiety, trauma, body-image worries, or past criticism around food or table manners.

But the good news? There are ways to feel calmer, more grounded, and more confident. Peggy shares five gentle tips that can help.

5 Calming Tips for Eating in Front of Others

1. Try People-Watching

This simple shift in focus can be surprisingly soothing. By observing the world around you — the chatter, the scenery, the small details — you redirect your attention outward instead of inwards on anxious thoughts.

2. What Other People Think of You Is None of Your Business

A firm favourite in Peggy’s toolkit!
Most people in a café or restaurant are wrapped up in their own day, their own food, their own thoughts. And even if someone did think something… you don’t have to carry it.

3. Bring a Book to the Table

Reading gives your mind something comforting, familiar, and grounding to focus on. It can help break that feeling of being ‘on display’ and bring a sense of normality back to the moment.

4. Eat Mindfully – Focus on the Food

Notice the textures, flavours, colours, and warmth. Eating mindfully not only reduces anxiety, it turns the meal into a sensory experience rather than a stressful one.

5. Gently Explore the Root Cause

Fear around eating in public often comes from earlier experiences, embarrassment, judgement, bullying, cultural expectations, or social anxiety. You don’t have to solve it all at once, but gently exploring where the fear comes from can make it easier to work through over time.

Remember, you’re not alone

Peggy’s canal-side reminder is simple: This fear is more common than you think, and you deserve to feel comfortable and confident when eating, wherever you are. Through mindfulness, self-kindness, and small steps like these, it is possible to soften the anxiety and reclaim the simple pleasure of enjoying food in the world.

Be sure to like and subscribe to our new YouTube channel and check out our recent videos for more like this! Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and get ready to enjoy our fun tips and tools for managing anxiety with mindful art. 

The Surprising Benefits of Neurographic Art

We recently had the pleasure of running a special Mindful Art Club session with Gifted Women, a charity that supports women with multiple disadvantage to access employment opportunities.

The wonderful afternoon was filled with creativity, community and calm using a Mindful Art Club favourite, neurographic art – a gentle drawing technique that encourages relaxation through the process rather than the focus of a final product.

What is neurographic art?

Neurographic art is a therapeutic practice developed by psychologist Pavel Piskarev, as a way to help people process emotions and reduce stress through creative expression!

The idea is simple, instead of trying to draw something ‘perfectly’ (whatever that means anyway!) you draw free-flowing lines, shapes, and patterns that represent your thoughts and feelings. As you add curves, colours, and connecting lines, the picture begins to evolve often in ways you didn’t expect!

Neurographic art is about letting your mind relax while your hand moves freely, simply enjoying the process of creating. The process is recognised for being calming and meditative, helping to quiet those busy thoughts and bring a sense of peace and focus. It’s clear to see why we love neurographic art so much at Mindful Art Club!

Mindfulness and empowerment

Collaborations like this with Gifted Women show how mindfulness and creativity can support mental health, confidence, and emotional wellbeing, especially for women rebuilding their lives and careers. Peggy and Emma were inspired by the openness and creativity in the room, as everyone approached the exercise differently. It was so wonderful to see how mindful art allows for both individuality and connection.

We’re so grateful to have shared this time together and we look forward to more creative partnerships that help people find calm, confidence, and connection through art. Click here to find out more about Gifted Women’s work.

Be sure to like and subscribe to our new YouTube channel and have a look at some of the wonderful art created in this session! Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and get ready to enjoy our fun tips and tools for managing anxiety with mindful art. 

NEW: Six Week Women’s Art Group


Did you know that inner calm is just a four minute walk away from Plymouth’s St Andrews Cross? Join us at the Unitarian Church hall, near Catherine Street, for our NEW women’s art group; a welcoming space to ease anxiety, slow down, and reconnect with yourself. Supported by Devon Community Foundation’s end VAWG fund.

Every Friday at 1.00pm, until 10th October 2025

Tap the link to find more upcoming, free, sessions.

Find Your Way to Mindful Art Club in Just 5 Minutes

HollysPomBoms

Messages of hope and acceptance, reminders to reach out and talk, and acts of kindness

After Holly took her own life in July 2018, her sister Anna wanted to do something to commemorate her birthday that felt joyful and fun. The sense of despair and sadness across Holly’s community was suffocating and we needed something positive to focus on and work towards. Holly was a very creative person, and often enjoyed crafting with her family, including making pompoms. So Anna came up with the idea of ‘pombombing’ public spaces in order to raise awareness of mental illness, and encouraged others to make pompoms and decorate somewhere for all to see. When it grew a little bigger than we thought it would, Holly’s friend Hettie got involved too, and now she can’t ever imagine not pombombing.

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Friends, families and colleagues rallied together and rose to the occasion. By the end of Holly’s birthday month, hundreds of people all over the world had made pompoms, pombombed somewhere or shared a photo. The colourful balls of love were catching strangers attention, encouraging them to reach out to ask for or offer help, starting conversations, sharing messages of hope and acceptance and most importantly of all, talking about Holly. ​

Why are we pombombing?​

We hope that the pompoms can bring an awareness of the fragility of life, be a conversation starter and a reminder that help can be sought and given. Prompting people to share their love, pain, grief and stories is a step towards breaking the stigma of mental illness, keeping memories alive and letting others know we care. Opening up to others can be an incredibly hard thing to do but there are always people who want to help and want to listen, whether it be a friend, family member or helpline. 

Mindful Art Club are pombombing for Mental Health Awareness Week 2025

https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/our-work/public-engagement/mental-health-awareness-week

Mental Health Awareness Week 2025 will take place from May 12 to May 18, focusing on the theme of community and the importance of supportive connections for mental health. This week aims to highlight how being part of a positive community can enhance well-being and provide a sense of belonging.

Read more: https://hollyspombombs.wixsite.com/hollyspombombs

Support Us Today (…but pay nothing!)

We’re Mindful Art Club. As you may know, we offer creative support for mental health, without a waiting list. Clients can self-refer, or they may be signposted to us by NHS social prescribers and other local community services.

Although you may have seen us consistently around Plymouth for five years, funding our work is actually an ongoing challenge. We were recently chatting, and realised that you may not know, that you can support our work AT NO COST TO YOURSELF!

To refresh your memory: Mindful Art Club is a community interest company dedicated to supporting people across Plymouth who are struggling with stress, social isolation, physical health problems, or living with common mental health challenges. We fund and deliver our support groups independently, and none of it would be possible without your generous support, and the support of charitable grants.

Whether you choose to make a one-time donation, contribute a small monthly donation, or start a fundraiser to encourage others, any support you provide helps us reach more people in need of peer support, social connection and signposting to other services. We are deeply grateful for any contribution you can make to Mindful Art Club. However, we also know we are in the middle of a cost of living crisis, so here are just a few ways you can help, without even spending any money!

Shop online

Got some Christmas shopping to do? Click through Easyfundraising and choose from over 8,000 shops and you could raise money for Mindful Art Club at the same time — without spending a penny more!

Social media

There are many ways you can turn your regular daily social media activity into donations and support for Mindful Art Club, from simply donating your birthday, to regularly liking, commenting on and sharing our posts. Leave us a positive review on Facebook, comment on our videos, or connect with Peggy on Linked In.

Follow Us

Following us on social media is a fantastic way to stay updated, help spread our message, and even boost our impact.

Links to our socials are in the top left corner, and we’d love for you to follow us!

Your Birthday Fundraiser

Requesting donations from friends and family in place of gifts is a meaningful and personal way to support a cause you care about. It’s easy to share on your timeline, and you can even include your own story! Instead of your birthday you could fundraise for your anniversary, another special occasion, or just as a way to say thank you, for what we do.

Simply copy and paste the following text:

Want to join me in supporting a good cause? I’m raising money for Mindful Art Club and your contribution will make an impact, whether you donate a lot, or a little. Anything helps. Thank you for your support. Mindful Art Club is a small, independent, not-for-profit organisation, offering much needed front-line mental health support in Plymouth, Devon.

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Fundraise for Us

Has someone you know been helped by Mindful Art Club? Whether you run a marathon, host a bake sale, take on a gaming challenge, or organise a crafternoon for Mindful Art Club, every pound you raise makes a meaningful difference in the lives of people across Plymouth!

Don’t read the next three suggestions if you don’t have any money!

Donate Today

We rely on the incredible support of our community to raise essential funds that allow us to continue our work — we truly couldn’t do it without you! Making a donation is the simplest way to directly support our mission.

Make a Monthly Donation

Sign up to support Mindful Art Club with a chosen amount every month, payments will be made automatically without you having to do anything.

Leave a legacy

Remembering Mindful Art Club in your will provides valuable funds which will help enable us to continue our vital services. Make your mark on mental health support in Plymouth by leaving a legacy for mental health.

If you are able to make a donation to Mindful Art Club, no matter how small, you will be helping us to support more people across Plymouth living with mental health problems. We just can’t do it without you. Thank you for your support.

Support Us

As always, thank you for reading, sharing, commenting, and being a part of our community! Which of the above suggestions could you do today?

New: Recovery Art Club

Has your drinking started to worry you?

Is using drugs causing problems in your life?

Are you already in recovery but want to connect with others?

Recovery Art Club is a free, weekly group at Moments Cafe in Plymouth city centre. The group is upstairs in the Arthur Read room and will be running for two months.

Starts: Wednesday 31st May 1.00pm – 2.30pm

Moments Café, 69a New George Street, Plymouth, PL1 1RJ

Even if you can’t decide whether you have a problem or not, you are welcome to come along. There is no art experience required! Friendly and informal. Just grab a coffee and join in.

Connect with others and discover new ways of practising self-care through easy art and mindfulness exercises. Practice being here in the present moment, and accept where you are right now, without self-judgement. We will also be inviting some inspiring guest speakers to these groups, to talk about addiction and recovery.

The group is hosted by Emma Sprawson and Peggy Melmoth. They are the founders of Mindful Art Club, and have a background of working for many years in addiction treatment centres in Plymouth.

Places are free thanks to a grant from Devon Community Foundation, but booking is essential as we expect this group to be popular.

Mindful Art Session

We start with a brief chat about how everyone is feeling, then a short guided mindfulness session, followed by a simple art activity that anyone can do. Our mission is to make mindfulness more fun! We’re not teaching art techniques, we’re just here to play.

Places are limited, so if you cannot attend please let us know and we can offer your place to someone else. Book now.

Not ready for this group yet? Join our mailing list to hear about other free events.

Free Creative Events Improve Lives in Plymouth

Did you miss The Storytelling Collective launch gig on Good Friday? We’ll be doing another one in three months time, and in between we will be offering workshops and creative activities to boost mental health and reduce social isolation. Watch our Facebook page for more news, or sign up to our mailing list.

Mindful Art Club, WonderZoo, Omnium Radio and Marbles Lost and Found are working together to create an opening gig, creative workshops and a closing exhibition over three months in 2023. The collaboration is funded by Plymouth Octopus Project. These events will feature a research element, where participants will be asked to talk about what they need to help improve their lives within the changing social and political climate. An independent evaluator will collate the findings in a report, and this will be presented at the exhibition. This will be a pilot research project, hopefully leading to a longer collaboration.

Improving Wellbeing

This is a collaborative pilot project between four groups that aims to tackle social isolation and improve wellbeing. At the heart of the project is fun, laughter and putting a smile on people’s faces, within group settings that foster empathy, trust and acceptance. The project will take place over three months (April-June 2023) with research conducted with the participants that will feed into a report written by an independent evaluator. The ideas gathered from the research will inform a plan to create a two year collaboration between the four groups, with further funding sought from National Lottery or other larger funding bodies. This pilot project will be a testing ground for different ideas using existing expertise and community connections.

The four groups all currently work with diverse individuals, providing opportunities for creativity, skill and knowledge sharing, social interaction and mental health support. The organisations will offer their tried and tested workshop formats, but with the additional offer of letting the participants have a voice that will feed into the research aspect. Participants of the project will be able to express their views and offer ideas for how their current difficulties can be supported better within the community. This will hopefully lead on to create a longer program that is evidence-based and tailored to people’s present experiences, rather than using past models, which may not be suited to current issues.

Good Friday was a collaborative performance event – an opportunity for one representative of The Storytelling Collective to give a short talk about the project, its philosophy, aims and activities. This was followed by several artists who performed comedy, music and spoken word.

There will be three workshops run by each group during April to June 2023, with feedback forms for research. During the sessions, casual conversations will be had with participants that aim to bring out honest perspectives and potential ideas, with notes taken for keywords and phrases. There will be 12 workshops in total, at different locations in Plymouth including Omnium Radio HQ, Union Corner, Oasis Project and The Plot.

The three month project will culminate in an evening showcasing the work that was done during the workshops and the results of the research and evaluation report. It will be an opportunity for participants to get together and hear how their ideas and perspectives have been heard and will feed into a larger project. If this pilot project is successful, with the groups able to work alongside and support one another, there is the possibility of creating a new network within Plymouth that is geared towards tackling social isolation using creative practices.

Working Together

Our four different groups have known of each other as friends for several years, with some of us working together already on various projects. We felt that working together as a collective would allow each of us to gain further knowledge, experience and skills, which will make us more resilient as organisations, leading to greater long term sustainability and positive impact on our community.


Our groups have similar values and aims, as we all work towards tackling social isolation, supporting mental health, giving people a sense of fun and purpose, and providing opportunities to develop friendships. We felt that we’d be able to work together successfully as we all offer unique creative approaches and perspectives, such as performance, radio, visual art, and talks, which can enable mutual support and growth. We hope that this pilot project can lead to longer term collaborations.

Become a Supporter! It Doesn’t Cost You a Thing!

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Plus, once you’ve signed up and raised £5 in donations, easyfundraising will match it with a bonus £5 bonus donation.

Just visit: Mindful Art Club at EasyFundraising.

Your donations will continue to help us offer free mental health support groups in Plympton and Plymouth, that also combat social isolation.

Art Makes a Big Difference in Plymouth

We regularly collect feedback from our art club participants to check that we are making a difference in our community. We are also working with a research team at Plymouth University to measure the difference we make.

“Mindful art group is a safe place to come. You can offload and are not judged, you can enter feeling down and alone, and leave knowing you have the groups support and empathy” – Karen.

“On my first visit to the group, I felt it was very welcoming. I found the groups activities interesting and will be coming regularly to your meetings. I have a big problem with large groups of people. I would normally say nothing as I would feel stupid. But not in this case. Thanks.” – Carole.

“It’s great that we meet regularly and check in with how we are all feeling. I feel like we are all responsible for each other – a space where we can talk, release, cry, laugh and our emotions are held by each other. I feel like ‘It’s OK, these people are here for me’. Whether you are a sociable person with lots of friends or alone in the world, there’s a group of people every week ready to listen and support me. It’s a great balance of mindfulness and creativity, for everyone, no matter what your experience is – we’re not artists by any means – just people coming together to be creative and peaceful.” – Erica.

If you’d like to boost mental health in your treatment service, support service, workplace or residential home we offer groups on line, one-off sample sessions, and a six week wellbeing programme. We also offer an outdoor mindful art retreat as a staff away day.

Read more: Why is Staff Wellbeing So Important?

While watching the FIFA World Cup recently you may have realised how stressful it is to be a football referee. That’s why we were happy to provide an online session for a group of premiership referees.

Peggy and Emma at Mindful Art were really pleasant and made everyone on the mindfulness session feel comfortable. They delivered a session that was really easy to take part and was enjoyable for all. I believe Mindfulness Art has a positive impact in promoting good Mental Health.

 Dr Liam SlackChartered Sport Psychologist, PGMOL

Find out more about booking a session.

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